Abah, Ibu & ...

June 14, 2010

2011-01-29T02:02:00.000+08:00

I know this post should be on the NEW home...but not all plan can be executed. Above that is a history that Abah & Ibu will remember for entire of our life. It is not our anniversary...but a day that we never thought will drop by in our life.

We moved in on April 24th and it's not even 2 months yet. There are a couple of boxes left to be unpacked AND valuable things can just be found on unsafe place such as dinning table. As most of the working days, Ibu and Nawal arrived first. When we were approaching the house, Ibu notice that our padlock is not there. Abah supposingly not home yet since his bike not at the parking bay. Ibu open the grill and saw the door is not close so tight (remember in the morning already had everything closed and locked). Ibu gently pushed the door and the view is NOT NICE. It is not the way I left it. The bookshelves drawers all on the floor. Nawal's books also scattered. Closed back the door and grill and called Abah.

"Where are you?"
"At the shop buying dinner"
"Our house was broke in"
"Are you sure?"
"Everything in the mess. I dare not get into the house"
"Ok, I'm coming back now"
"I'll wait downstairs"

Ibu drag Nawal back to the elevator and went down. Saw 2 guards on patrol, wave at them and tell them that our house was broken in. They go up and checked while both of us wait down there. Nawal a little bit confuse as why we still have to be down. Both of them came down again and said that there was no broke in. I was puzzled a while, but still insist that the house is not the way I left it. Ibu, Nawal and one of the guard go up again, we enter the house and I show the guard all the clothes are out of wardrobe already.

Then, the story become long enough for me to tell in details. Police report...bla bla..police came...CSI came...

List of items gone:
- Abah' new handphone, new watch, enggagement/wedding ring, laptop, car key
- Ibu's gold braclet, pasar mlm rayban, spoilt handbag, digital camera
- Nawal's gold anklet
- 2@3 hundrred cash and 6 hundred coins

Total lost in term of value, 80% under Abah. He even need to change his car key and alarm system. Which cost us until now as the changes spoilt his car wiring and make the battery drained regularly.That is the physical one...but the one of most valuable thing is the photos in Abah's laptop; Nawal's 2nd birthday party.

The impact:
- We have to take leave to tidy up the mess and buying new expensive padlock
- We spend almost another 2K to change the door, adding keys and padlock, changing Abah's car key and alarm
- We need 5 keys to enter our house instead of 2
- Ibu don't feel like buying gold anymore
- Ibu feel not secured in own house anymore

Finally...I did it

2010-06-12T01:17:00.000+08:00

After quite sometime the new template live online...finally manage to solve the date issue. Thanks a million to Claudia for giving the solution. I was so sad..thinking that I might need to let go this template. I love it so much. Always love the classic type :)

Since everything is ok already...it's time to continue blogging @ our new home. Next post and the post after that will be ALL about the OUR NEW HOME. :)

The weekend

2010-01-18T02:09:00.002+08:00

Ibu is so tired without Abah. Not even a week, Nawal start looking for Abah already. She has blocked nose and cough( get it from me ). Today went o Jusco, but she don't want to walk. Have to carry her all the way through except the escalator. She loves so much using it. So many people, long queue, just only to buy a bottle brush.

In the evening we went to the playground, she so happy. That's all I need, to see my daughter smile.

Anniversary is coming

2010-01-11T01:47:00.002+08:00

We'll be celebrating our 3rd anniversary next month. Ibu don't have any idea to buy present for Abah. Just feel cannot wait for the day. Both can't take leave coz we need to spare our leave for the house...moving out will take time rite. :)

New Year

2010-01-04T00:06:00.004+08:00

Even today is the 3rd day...it's still considered new. It has been a long time I didn't update this blog or Nawal's. Last time, Ibu update while Abah is away. Next week he'll be away...for quite sometimes. So only two of us will be around.

These few days Nawal throwing tantrum a lot. She have flu (which already 'shared' with me), night coughing, gigi taring(canine tooth) on the way. Believe if or not, her front teeth already 8 (4 up & 4 down) and 4 molar(up down left right). I can see 3 canine already emerge, waiting for the fourth (lower left).

Primary Teeth Development Chart
Upper Teeth	When tooth emerges	When tooth falls out
Central incisor	8 to 12 months	6 to 7 years
Lateral incisor	9 to 13 months	7 to 8 years
Canine (cuspid)	16 to 22 months	10 to 12 years
First molar	13 to 19 months	9 to 11 years
Second molar	25 to 33 months	10 to 12 years

Lower Teeth
Second molar	23 to 31 months	10 to 12 years
First molar	14 to 18 months	9 to 11 years
Canine (cuspid)	17 to 23 months	9 to 12 years
Lateral incisor	10 to 16 months	7 to 8 years
Central incisor	6 to 10 months	6 to 7 years

1st day of this year, Abah 'BANG' Ibu's car door. My beloved kancil handbreak not function optimumly. U need to raised it twice to confirm it will not move at all. This accident happen when we r going 2 tesco. Abah seat in the car without closing the door & suddenly kancil start to reverse, he' so panick to stop the car and make my door bang the pillar. :(
So sad since I take a great care of my baby.

Abah is Away

2009-10-06T01:42:00.003+08:00

With my sleeping disorder getting worse...Abah receive sudden assignment. Abah went to outstation inspection, leaving Ibu and Nawal. Lucky enuf, it's only a few days job. So, Ibu need to come back home early to fetch Nawal eventho my works are piling up. Hoping to up some Raya's story and photo in my next post.

Bulan Pose yg Penat

2009-09-04T02:12:00.001+08:00

Huhuhu...ibu penat...dah lama tak tulis....

Bulan pose..banyak keje...kene gi training lagi...bos nk launch system agi...nak kene bangun masak sahur agi....

Coding tak siap..tido dulu...

Abah coming back

2009-08-07T00:58:00.002+08:00

Last weeken got a kenduri..but ibu can't find my cable to upload photo..the day after that abah left for outstation...So ibu need to wait

monday..

tuesday..

wednesday..

thursday..

and 2morow friday...abah will be back :)

Shop Till U Drop

2009-07-31T00:25:00.002+08:00

Jusco Equine JCard Day. Now I know why so many people rushing for JCard Day, it's really worth it...but tiring. Lucky enuf we did not bring Nawal.

Abah, Ibu & Nawal now already got baju raya.

This is last raya photo

Kenduri

2009-07-19T01:23:00.003+08:00

Ari ni Abah, Ibu & Nawal gi kenduri kawin...tapi lupa nak amik gamba sekeping pun...

Nawal mood tak baik..die ngantuk...makn pun semulut due je...

Kawan ramai tapi tak dapat main sebab ngantuk..cian die ..

Fever

2009-07-10T16:16:00.002+08:00

When I fetch my daughter; Nawal from her nursery yesterday, she had fever on top of her cough and flu. We directly go to the clinic, temperature 38.9 C. Last night hardly sleep for all three of us. Nawal keep crying coz her she cannot breath with her nose. Today, both abah and ibu EL :(. hoping that Nawal will recover soon.

Training

2009-07-09T00:48:00.003+08:00

What a hectic week. Both Abah & Ibu having training this week. Abah is the organizer cum participant for 3 days while Ibu is the trainer for 2 days...sorry guys...unable to feed more on this.

Will come back to you later :)

Welcome Note

2009-07-04T01:03:00.000+08:00

I never thought I will create this blog. It will be both in Malay and English. I wanna make it as a tribute to all Abah(Dad) and Ibu(Mom) in this world.

Let's share our experience in marriage life especially the parenthood moment.